I was asking for help on this web site. which i really need but after looking at other peoples stories.I realize i have gotten myself here and i am no longer asking for anything.I will someday get myself out of this mess.i am sorry that i wrote to ask anyone for there hard earned money.I had my own kids and made my bills.please i am sorry for asking.And god will help me and thats all i need.he only gives us what we can handle.And i guess i will have to do with what i get,and work with it the best i can.i hope every one on this site gets what they need.good luck to all and god bless.WORK IT OUT the best you can.